Heart or Mind?

it's been months since we broke up.
i don't love her anymore, i can't even recognize her as she changed a lot.
she's not the one that I've loved before.

Now I'm hungry for love. Since then, I've realized that love is essential.
but then, LOVE always comes with SUFFERINGS. You will not get
a thing that you want completely or easily. there would always be something missing, there is always something that would block your way.

A lot of people tell me their story. their suffering. i love it though, that they trust me. that they let me see their weakest side. I've heard a lot of story about loving someone that is already committed to someone else.
I cannot blame them. You cannot choose the one that you will love. It's out of our control. That's when heart rules the mind. Someone asked me, which should i follow? heart or mind? If you choose to follow your mind, it means your giving up, you'll choose the easy way, you'll going to prioritize others and try to find something better that no one would be against, no complications. If you follow your heart, it means you'll choose the hard way, you would not care what will people may think or say about you, time wherein you become stupid, selfish and deaf. Of course a lot of people would choose to follow the mind, including me. But it's not that easy, no matter how much you want to follow your mind, in the end, Your heart will still reign.

There are sayings that "When God was creating Man, He placed the brain higher than the heart" which would mean that mind should always be the one to be followed. In Science, The brain controls the heart, decodes the messages received by our senses. But for a person who loves, heart confuses the brain and make our senses numb.

As a conclusion, I've combined 2 facts,
1. The brain was placed higher than the heart in a Man's body.
2. When a man died, the heart would be the last to stop functioning among all body organs. ,

therefore, The mind must be followed But the heart will reign at the end.